Where is the clitoris located exactly in the female's genitalia? If it differs per woman, what is the easiest way to locate it? Thanks, Can't find. Dear Can't find. Question: Maybe I should know this and maybe I do. But just to be sure, can you tell me where the clitoris is and how I should touch it? Thanks. I can't orgasm or find the right places on my anatomy. Share | While most women do enjoy G-spot stimulation, The clitoris isn't a magic button either.